Calm, practical guidance
Scam prevention for older adults
Scams are designed to create fear, urgency, excitement, or secrecy. People of every age can be targeted. A short pause and a separate verification step can prevent many losses.
Pause, check, verify, report
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Pause
End the call or stop replying. A legitimate organization will allow time to verify a request.
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Check
Look for pressure, secrecy, unexpected account warnings, requests for codes, remote access, gift cards, cash, gold, wire transfers, or cryptocurrency.
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Verify
Use an official app, statement, card, or independently typed .gov or company website—not the link, number, or caller ID in the message.
High-risk patterns to recognize
- A bank, government agency, police officer, court, or technology company says money must be moved to keep it safe.
- A caller demands secrecy or says a family member is in an emergency. Voices and video can now be imitated with AI.
- A pop-up asks you to call support, install remote-access software, or let someone control your screen.
- A new online friend or investment contact avoids meeting and asks for money, cryptocurrency, gift cards, or account access.
Build a simple family safety plan
- Choose a family verification word that is not posted online.
- Agree that urgent money requests will always be confirmed by calling a known number.
- Turn on bank and card alerts, two-factor authentication, and automatic software updates.
- Ask one trusted person to be available for a second opinion without blame or pressure.
What never to share
- Passwords, one-time verification codes, PINs, or full Social Security, bank, or card numbers in an unexpected conversation.
- Remote control of a device for an unsolicited caller or pop-up.
- Money to anyone who says it must be paid by gift card, cash courier, gold, cryptocurrency, or a new bank transfer to protect an account.
Trusted guidance
CyberCare links directly to primary public sources so you can verify important safety actions.
Related help
Being targeted or deceived is not a personal failure. Asking for help quickly is a strong safety decision.